
See It and Be It; Use it or Loose It
Carly Olson LMHC
3 reviews
Chapters
6
Language
English
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Published
August 25, 2025
See It and Be It or Use It or Loose It isn’t just another book about cleaning out your closet—it’s a laugh-out-loud, heart-on-your-sleeve guide to navigating life’s transitions with courage, humor, and a touch of therapy magic. Whether you’re downsizing your home, reimagining your career, or just wondering why you’ve kept 47 plastic margarine tubs “just in case,” this book shows you how to decide what really deserves a spot in your future. The rule is simple: if you can see it and be it (meaning it inspires you, supports your goals, or brings you joy), it stays. If you actively use it—great, keep it! But if it’s gathering dust and holding you back? It’s time to loose it (yes, with two O’s—because life’s too short to be grammatically uptight). Along the way, Licensed Mental Health Counselor Carly Olson guides you with warmth, wit, and proven therapeutic tools: • CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy): Catch those sneaky thoughts that whisper “But what if I need this in 2037?” and reframe them with humor and clarity. • DBT (Dialectical Behavior Therapy): Embrace the truth that you can love an item and still let it go. (Goodbye, commemorative spoon collection!) • Solution-Focused Therapy: Stop staring at the mess—start picturing the future you want, one organized shelf at a time. Packed with lighthearted stories, practical exercises, and affirmations like “I’m the boss of my basement” and “Memories live in me, not in the teacups,” this book will leave you laughing as much as you’re learning. See It and Be It or Use It or Loose It isn’t about losing—it’s about choosing. Choosing freedom, choosing joy, and choosing to step boldly into the next chapter of life, with fewer boxes and a whole lot more peace of mind.
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Start Writing NowCarly Olson, MS, LMHC, is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor with over two decades of experience. Driven by a passion for educating and inspiring, Carly is dedicated to helping individuals regain control and embrace their best lives. As an expert in treating anxiety and depression, she uniquely blends her therapeutic expertise with her practical experience as the owner of a senior move management company. Whether you're navigating a new chapter or simply seeking guidance, Carly offers the knowledge and tools to support your journey.