Biography

Itqon Askary is a relationship and personal communication coach—and an introvert himself. He spent years trying to understand why most dating advice out there doesn’t work for guys like him—quiet, a little shy, but genuinely seeking meaningful connection. Through personal experience, careful observation, and coaching young men from various backgrounds, Itqon developed an approach that’s more human, less forceful, and perfectly aligned with the introverted personality. The result is the Introvert Dating System—a practical guide that doesn’t force you to be the loudest or most confident guy in the room, but helps you succeed simply by being more aware, intentional, and authentic. When he's not writing or sharing insights, Itqon is active in self-development communities, mentoring youth, and often ends up being the go-to friend for relationship advice. He believes introversion isn’t something to “fix”—it’s something to understand and optimize.